Why can't a Guy and a Gal just remain good friends? Is it always necessary, that if they enjoy each others' company and have a certain chemistry, that they gotta "fall in love" (its such an old cliche). Its obvious that they do have a certain level of attraction and fondness, otherwise they wouldn't be friends in the first place. Whenever a Guy and Gal share a good friendship, there is always one question on everyone's mind "Is there something more than what meets the eye?"
I am not saying that friendship can't mature into love, in fact thats the best thing that can happen to anyone. But if things turn sour, you lose the two most important people in your life (friend and lover) at once. In a normal relationship you only suffer a heartbreak, but you still have your friend's shoulder to cry on. Just imagine what you'll do if you lose your friend! How will you cope up with the emptiness? Even the mention of such a thought sends a chill down my spine coz I, for one, value true friendship above most things.
As if dealing with such an inquisite crowd wasn't enough, you are really in a fix when a certain special someone (ahem!) is also of the firm opinion (bordering on the edge of accepting it as a fact) that you are more than just friends with your best friend (Point to be noted:referring to your best friend as your "kaam chalau girl friend" doesn't really help your case). In this case your only refuge is God himself.
I am not saying that friendship can't mature into love, in fact thats the best thing that can happen to anyone. But if things turn sour, you lose the two most important people in your life (friend and lover) at once. In a normal relationship you only suffer a heartbreak, but you still have your friend's shoulder to cry on. Just imagine what you'll do if you lose your friend! How will you cope up with the emptiness? Even the mention of such a thought sends a chill down my spine coz I, for one, value true friendship above most things.
As if dealing with such an inquisite crowd wasn't enough, you are really in a fix when a certain special someone (ahem!) is also of the firm opinion (bordering on the edge of accepting it as a fact) that you are more than just friends with your best friend (Point to be noted:referring to your best friend as your "kaam chalau girl friend" doesn't really help your case). In this case your only refuge is God himself.
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